Abaningi bazwile ukuthi amakati aseSiamese ayaphindisela. Kepha lesi sitatimende sifana neqiniso lokuthi bonke abesifazane abakwazi ukushayela imoto, futhi bonke abesilisa abanamsebenzi, bonke abantu ababi babi, futhi wonke amadoda akhuluphele angumphefumulo wenkampani. Konke lokhu kuyinkolelo-ze, okungukuthi, ukulindela okuthile, ngaphandle kokufunda izici zomuntu ngamunye. Futhi into ebi kakhulu lapho abantu beqala ukulengisa "amalebuli" anjalo ezilwaneni.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, i-psychology yomuntu kanye ne-psychology yamakati zihluke ngokuphelele. Owesibili, aqondiswa ikakhulukazi yimvelo yokuzalwa. Vele, amakati awanayo imizwa, ayazi ukuthi anganamathela kanjani, ayabuqonda ubuhlungu. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucacile ukuthi yiziphi izidingo, ukuthambekela, izici ezilele ekuziphatheni kwesilwane.
Ake sizame ukuqonda ngokujulile ukuthi hlobo luni lomlingiswa onamaSiamese, okuthi mhlawumbe awahlukanise namanye amakati. Yini ebashukumisela ezenzweni ezithile, imiphi imikhuba nezici ezibenza bahluke emhlabeni wezilwane.
Umsebenzi womzimba
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, cishe wonke amazinyane ahamba futhi asebenza.... Lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokukhula kahle komzimba. Ngokuqondene namakati eSiamese, kubo indlela yokuphila esebenzayo iyingxenye ebalulekile.
Kuyathakazelisa! Kukhona enye yezinganekwane zokuthi ikati laseSiamese lazalwa njengesithelo sothando lwenkawu eyiduna nengonyamakhosazana. Kusukela ekuqaleni, wazuza njengefa ukungasebenzi ngokweqile nokuhamba. Yebo, ukhokho wesibili wamnikeza isimo sokuqhosha, sobukhosi.
Vele, le nganekwane ayinabo ubufakazi besayensi, kepha umsebenzi kaSiam wenza kukholwe ukuthi okhokho kungenzeka ukuthi babeyizinkawu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunaka kakhulu imidlalo yangaphandle, imisebenzi enaleli kati nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Noma sebeneminyaka "beseminyakeni" abaphikisi ukugijima nokujaha.
Ukuhlalisana ngekati laseSiamese
Ikati laseSiamese lithambekele kubantu ngisho nangaphezulu kohlobo lwalo. Lokhu kuziphatha kukhumbuza ukwethembeka kwenja. Lapho umuntu ekhona, kuzoba nomsila omnyama, obushelelezi, ogobile kancane. Futhi etshalwe kancane, amehlo aluhlaza alandela ngokucophelela ukunyakaza ngakunye futhi, kwesinye isikhathi, afake ikhanda lawo esikhundleni ukuze isandla senkosi sikwazi ukuthanda kancane. Ngakho-ke, ukwakha ubudlelwano nekati kuyisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu.
Isimo sengqondo ngomnikazi
Njengomthetho, lezi zilwane zinamathele kakhulu kumnikazi.... Ngezinga lokuthi bakulungele ukumela ngokoqobo, besebenzisa uzipho namazinyo, uma becabanga ukuthi usengozini. Ukuzinikela okungenamibandela, ukuzimisela ngisho nokudela impilo - konke lokhu ngenzela uthando lomnikazi. AbakwaSiamy banomona omkhulu uma kusekhona izilwane ezifuywayo endlini, nabo bayanakwa. Lawa makati akholelwa ukuthi umuntu kufanele abe ngowabo kuphela, ngokuphelele nangokuphelele.
Bakhumbula kakhulu lapho umuntu engekho ekhaya. Futhi lapho umnyango obukade ulindelwe uvuleka, bona, njengezinja, bagijimela emhlanganweni babingelele, bahlabe umkhosi kakhulu, banciphise, sengathi "bayakhuluma" futhi bakhononde ngokungabikho isikhathi eside.
Okubalulekile! Lapho wakha ubudlelwano nekati lamaSiamese, umuntu kufanele enze ibhalansi phakathi kokukhombisa ukuphakama kwakhe nokuzitika ngokweqile.
UShusyukanye nokungabikho kwemingcele yalokho okuvumelekile kuzokwenza umphathi wezilwane. Ukubonakaliswa kobushiqela obufanayo nalolu hlobo kugcwele ukubonakaliswa kwalokhu "kuziphindisela" abathanda ukukhuluma ngakho, kukhulunywa ngekati laseSiamese.
Kubalulekile ukwakha ubudlelwano obunethezekile nesilwane sakho. Kufanele azi, nokuthi umthanda ini nokuthi yini ongayenza nongakwazi ukuyenza. Kunenqwaba yemibhalo ngesihloko se-zoopsychology nokuziphatha kwezilwane, futhi ungene kulesi sihloko, ungaqonda ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani ngaphandle kokusebenzisa izijeziso ezinzima.
Isimo sengqondo ngezingane
Amakati eSiamese anobungane ngokweqile nezingane. Ndawonye, ​​bayakujabulela ukudlala. Kakade, abaseSiamese banamandla amaningi! Futhi uma esimweni somuntu omdala, basengakwazi ukusebenzisa izinzipho zabo, khona-ke baziphatha ngokucophelela nezingane. Kuncike ekutheni ingane yaphinde yachazwa ngabazali bayo ukuthi isilwane akuyona into yokudlala futhi akumele sicindezelwe, sibanjwe ngomsila, sidonswe ngamadevu.
Ngeshwa, kwenzeka futhi ukuthi ingane iziphatha ngonya kakhulu, futhi abantu abadala babona lokho kuziphatha njengokujwayelekile. Futhi uma kulunywa noma kuklwebheka, ngokushesha balahla isilwane esineshwa, futhi bangajahi ukuchazela ingane yabo okuhle nokubi.
Ubudlelwano nezinye izilwane
Noma yiliphi ikati likhathazekile ngendawo yalo, futhi ukuvela okungazelelwe kwesinye isidalwa esiphilayo kuzodala impendulo yokuzivikela. Kodwa-ke, njengoba umkhuba ukhombisa, asikho esisodwa noma ezimbili zezilwane ezingazwana efulethini elilodwa. Kubalulekile ukwethula izilwane ezifuywayo ngokuhlakanipha uma ufuna ukunciphisa izinkinga noma ukusheshisa inqubo yokwamukela izilwane ezifuywayo komunye nomunye. AmaSiamese ajwayele ukuba nolaka ngokwengeziwe kubamele bohlobo lwawo, njengamakati, kunezinja. Ungesabi lokhu. Kumele sinikeze isikhathi sokwazana.
Kuyathakazelisa! Emhlabeni wezilwane, umzila oyinhloko wokuthola ulwazi iphunga!
Yingakho lapho behlangana, njengomthetho, bahogela. Izinja zikwenza ngamabomu ngokwengeziwe, amakati ngokunethezeka, zihlikihla izeluleko zazo zezihlathi. Kunezindlala zephunga. Le yiphasipoti yabo. Ukulandelana kwabantu kubaluleke kakhulu ku-felines... Isilwane ekuqaleni esisendlini sizibheka njengomholi i-priori. Uma isilwane silethwe singenakho ukwenziwa komholi we-alpha, kungenzeka ukuthi umbuzo othi "ngubani umphathi wendlu" uzoxazululwa ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, ekuqaleni zama ukubheka la maphuzu ayisisekelo. Awudingi ukusunduza ama-alpha amabili wesilisa, noma okubi kakhulu, abesifazane ababili be-alpha.
Emvelweni, isibonelo, abantu abanjalo bazama ukungahambisani. Isibonelo, omunye uzungeza insimu ekuseni, omunye enze kusihlwa kuphela. Futhi bayiqonda ngamathegi womchamo. Okamakati, le yindlela eqondakalayo futhi engokwemvelo yokumaka ngokuthula: "Le yinsimu yami, ngilapha kusukela ngo-5.30 ekuseni kuya ku-6.15." Ukushayisana kwabesilisa kwenzeka entwasahlobo kuphela, sonke isikhathi kunokuthula nokuzola, ngoba akekho owephula imithetho yokuziphatha. Akunakwenzeka ukufeza ukuhleleka okunjalo efulethini, kepha imvelo ayinyama. Yingakho isilwane siqala "ngokuzumayo" shit emakhoneni. Ukumjezisa ngomzamo wakhe wemvelo wokudala ubuhlobo ngokuthula kuwubuwula obukhulu. Kepha kwenzeka kahle emithethweni yomuntu.
Kukhona iseluleko esincane sendlela yokwethula ngokushesha amakati amabili. Kuyadingeka ukuthatha ucezu lwendwangu bese uhlikihla izinwele ezungeze ikhanda, kubune, isifonyo. Bese ushaya isilwane sesibili ngendwangu efanayo ukuze kuhlanganiswe iphunga. Inqubo kufanele yenziwe ngesilwane ngasinye, kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi-ke, kufanele ubekezele. Uma sekusungulwe isigaba sabaphathi, kuzoba nokuthula nokuzwana ekhaya.
AmaSiamese futhi aphatha ezinye izilwane ngisho nezinye ezingabazi ngovalo nokungazethembi. Kepha uma bona, futhi, bengazami ukunqoba ikati, balichoboze ngaphansi kwabo, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi bakhe ubuhlobo obuhle. Ngokushesha nje lapho ikati noma ikati laseSiamese liqonda ukuthi insimu yabo, ukudla, nomnikazi akayona ingozi, bayakhululeka ngokushesha baqale ukutadisha into entsha ngentshisekelo nobungani.
Ubuhlakani, amakhono okufunda
Lolu hlobo luhlukaniswa ngamakhono alo athuthuke kakhulu okufunda nokufunda. AmaSiam anenkumbulo enhle kakhulu, ukunakwa okuthuthukile, ilukuluku lemvelo. Bafunda kalula ubuqili, ukuhamba kahle kwi-harness, futhi kulula kakhulu ukuqeqesha.
Okubalulekile! Ilukuluku elingokwemvelo lamakati eSiamese livame ukuwaxosha ukuba ahambe ngaphandle kwensimu yendlu. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isilwane asilahlekile, ngoba uma sesisemgwaqweni, ngeke sikwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside. AmaSiamese awekho ijazi elingaphansi!
Ukuhlelwa kwamakilasi ohlobo lweSiamese kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba ubuhlakani babo obuphakeme ngaphandle kwemfundo efanele bangadlala ihlaya elinonya, baliguqule libe ngumkhohlisi onekhono futhi onhlanhlathayo.
Ukukhetha ubulili: ikati noma ikati
Kunezici zezinhlamvu ezihlukile phakathi kwekati lamaSiamese nekati. Amakati anokuthambekela okuqonde kakhulu ebuholini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iSiamese evelele ibona umuntu anaye njengolinganayo. Kuphakathi kokuthi ubabeke endaweni engaphansi ngokuzenzakalela, noma unamathiselwe njengowukuphela komngane wabo omkhulu.
Kuyathakazelisa!Izimpawu zithambekele kakhulu ekuhloleni indawo ezungezile. Isikhala esisodwa sefulethi asibanele.
Ngakho-ke, bangalwela ukuphuma bangene emgwaqweni ngefasitela, ukuze bangene ngomnyango. Lokhu kusebenza ikakhulukazi entwasahlobo, uma isilwane singakhishwa.
Amakati eSiamese azolile kancane futhi anothando kakhulu.
Bazozama ngazo zonke izindlela ukuthola ukunakwa nothando lomuntu. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, banomona kakhulu kunamakati! Cishe wonke amakati ahlanzekile kunamakati. Bayazikhotha ngenkuthalo, bagcina uboya babo buhleleke kahle.
Kodwa-ke, abesifazane banesimo esivelele kakhulu sokuzala.... Uma umnikazi engahlelile ukuqala ukuzalanisa, isilwane kufanele sibulawe inzalo ngesikhathi esifanele emtholampilo wezilwane. Lapho sibhekene nalesi silwane esimangalisayo nesihle, kanye nanoma yisiphi esinye, into esemqoka okufanele siyikhumbule ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela eyamukelekayo yemfundo ukufudumala nothando. Akunakwenzeka neze ukujezisa isilwane ngokomzimba, ikakhulukazi ngaphandle kokuqonda isimo noma ukungaziqondi izisekelo zokuziphatha kwesilwane.
