Mhlawumbe abantu abanekati noma ikati ekhaya, kungekudala bazibuze ukuthi ngabe lezi zilwane ziboleka ukuqeqeshwa yini. UTolley ngenxa yokungaziphathi kahle nokulalela, noma ukuphishekela izinhloso zezentengiselwano, ukwakha umbukiso ogqamile ngezinombolo zamasekisi ngokuhlanganyela kwezilwane ezifuywayo ezinoboya. Kungaba nezizathu ezahlukahlukene.
Ukuqeqeshwa kwekati: kungenzeka?
Ngaphandle kwezinhloso, impendulo yinye - amakati alungele ukuqeqeshwa. Kepha ukuqeqesha izilwane ezifuywayo ezinoboya kuyinto ehluke ngokuphelele ekuqeqesheni izinja ezijwayelekile. Ngamakati, konke kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Futhi ungasheshi ucabange ukuthi isizathu ukuhlakanipha kwabo okubuthakathaka. Konke kufihliwe esimweni semvelo eyinkimbinkimbi ye-feline. Ngenkathi izinja kungezesilwane sohlobo lomhlambi wezenhlalo, isifiso sokulalela sibekwe kubo ngemvelo yomama, amakati ayizilwane ezithanda inkululeko futhi awemukeli ukuphoqwa, imikhawulo kanye nokuyala phezu komuntu wazo onemiqhele. Lesi sici sobuntu babo singafundwa kaningi emisebenzini ehlukahlukene yobuciko, ngokwesibonelo, ku-A.S. UPushkin "nekati lososayensi liqhubeka nokuhamba ngamaketanga."
Uma amakati ezimele kangaka, ungabhekana kanjani nawo? Mane uthathe futhi uhlakaniphe isilwane: inqubo yokuqeqesha kufanele ibonakale ikati libuyela emuva. Okusho ukuthi, isilwane kufanele sigcine umuzwa wenkululeko nomqondo wokudlala, ngomqondo othile, udinga ukwethula konke sengathi bekunguye obekuqeqesha, hhayi wena. Futhi kulula ukuqala ukuqeqesha amakati kusuka ebuntwaneni.
Ungaqala kanjani ukuqeqesha ikati?
Umthetho wokuqala futhi oyinhloko wokuphumelela kwaleli bhizinisi ukuthembela okuphelele. Kungokwethembana okuphelele nobungani bobabili lapho kungafinyelelwa noma yimiphi imiphumela. Isilwane akufanele, noma kunjalo, sikwesabe, kufanele okungenani wazi kahle omunye nomunye. Ekati, le nqubo akudingeki ihlotshaniswe nengcindezi. Khetha isikhathi esifanele sokuqeqeshwa. Uma usazi kahle isilwane sakho, khona-ke ngokuqinisekile uzonquma amahora akhe "ajabule" lapho efuna ukunakwa, imidlalo, uthando. Naka isimo sekati: akufanele adinwe noma alale, esimweni sokucindezeleka noma abe matasa ngebhizinisi lakhe, ngokwesibonelo, uma egeza noma edla. Cabanga ngokwakho ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokuqonda umnikazi angathembela kulo uma isilwane sidonswa entweni ebalulekile, ikakhulukazi ekudleni ukudla.
Ngakho-ke uthole umzuzu ofanele. UKisa usesimweni esimnandi, sokudlala. Ungajahi ukubamba amasongo, izitulo neminye imishini ngokushesha. Cabanga ngephuzu elibalulekile: ukuqeqeshwa kwekati kusekelwe ekubukeni, okungukuthi, ukukhomba amathalente omuntu othile. Qaphela. Ingabe isilwane sakho sigxuma ngokweqile? Mhlawumbe une-ultra ngokunemba ukweqa? Mhlawumbe unesipho sokujaha amabhola? Noma kukhona isifiso sasendle sokuhudula izinto emazinyweni akho usuka kwenye indawo uye kwenye? Uma ubhekisisa, futhi ubamba iqhaza emdlalweni, unganquma ithalente lesilwane sakho. Futhi, usebenzisa umcabango omncane, cabanga ngeqoqo lamaqhinga wenombolo. Noma bona ukuthi yini okufanele kugcizelelwe ukuze kutholakale imiphumela oyifunayo ekuziphatheni nasekulaleleni kwesilwane.
Ungakhathali ngokudumisa "umlingisi onoboya" futhi uzuze ngemisebenzi efanele. Yilokhu kuphela okufanele kwenziwe ngomzuzwana ofanayo, ukuze isilwane sazi kahle ukuthi sitholile izibopho noma uthando.
Izeluleko ezimbalwa ezisebenzayo
Ake sibheke iziqephu ezimbalwa zezandla. Isibonelo, ukufundisa umyalo wokuma, udinga ukubamba umzuzu lapho isilwane siya endaweni ethile futhi uhloniphe ngesizotha indlela yaso nentende yakho phambi kwesifonyo esinamagama "ame". Uma ikati lima, liphulule futhi uliphathe libe mnandi.
Ukufundisa umyalo wokuhlala phansi, kuyadingeka ukuthi ulinde isilwane ukuthi sihlale phansi ngokuzithandela bese kuthi ngomzuzwana ofanayo uthi "hlala", bese usikhuthaza ngokushesha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi i-kosha ingafinyeleli ekudleni okumnandi futhi ingasukumi, nokuthi inqubo phakathi kwesenzo nokukhuthaza ayidonseli phambili, ngoba ukuqonda ukuthi umklomelo wenzelwe kona kulahlekile. Kamuva, ukuze uhlole ukuthi ngabe lo myalo ulungisiwe enkumbulweni yesilwane, ngemuva kokuphindaphinda okuphindaphindiwe, linda kuze kube yilapho isilwane simile nje, ngeke sibe matasa noma sidideke, futhi ngenkathi sidlula, yisho ngezwi elipholile "hlala". Uma ikati lihlala phansi, sicela ngesipho noma ngothando, uma kungenjalo, ngakho-ke akusona isikhathi, phinda izivivinyo.
Ukufundisa ukweqa amasongo, kusuka esitokisini kuya esitulweni, kuyinto elula kakhulu. Sebenzisa imvelo yokudlala ye-feline, mane ulinge isilwane sakho ukuthi sifinyelele, ngokwesibonelo, ngophaphe olukhanyayo: vusa ukucabanga kokuzingela kwesilwane sakho. Futhi-ke, ngemuva kokwenziwa okulungile komyalo - zitika.
Ungafunda futhi isilwane imiyalo efana nokuthi "kimi", "letha", "indawo" neminye eminingi. Mhlawumbe, ukuwasebenzisa, nguwe ozoza nokuthile okungokoqobo.
Kunoma ikuphi, ungadikibali uma imiphumela egculisayo ingaveli ngokushesha. Yiba nesineke futhi uhloniphe umuntu onobulwelwe nohlobo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule nqubo ukuvumela isilwane ukuthi sikhumbule ukuhleleka kwezenzo nenhloso yazo. Konke kufanele kwenziwe ngesikhathi futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uyadumisa, u-ayina nokuphakelayo ukuze kwenziwe umyalo omuhle kakhulu. Awukwazi konke ngasikhathi sinye kusuka kuhlu olungenhla lwemiklomelo.
Sikufisela inhlanhla ngomzamo wakho! Thanda, dumisa isilwane sakho futhi uphikelele, khona-ke uzophumelela!
