Akukwazi njalo ukungena egumbini lesiguli, ngisho nezihlobo nabangane. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ezikhungweni zezokwelapha kunamahora wokwamukela kanye nemiqondo efanayo. Ngokuqondene nezilwane ezifuywayo, konke kuqine kakhulu lapha.
Izilwane azivunyelwe ngisho nakulabo abafayo. Kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi kunokwehluka emithethweni, lapho abasebenzi besibhedlela bephula imithetho ngamabomu ngenhloso yokwenza umuntu oshonile akwazi ukuvalelisa kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni wakhe, kubandakanya nabanemilenze emine. Ngemuva kwakho konke, akekho noyedwa ongaphika ukuthi inja noma ikati futhi lingaba ngamalungu omndeni agcwele, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nabaseduze kakhulu.
Isibonelo, lapho abasebenzi besibhedlela saseMelika bethola ukuthi uRyan Jessen oneminyaka engama-33 wayesenesikhathi esincane kakhulu sokuphila, banquma ukumnikeza ukunakekelwa kokugcina ngendlela yangempela.
Njengoba udadewabo kaRyan uMichelle abelane ekhasini lakhe le-Facebook abasebenzi basesibhedlela benze into enhle kakhulu ongayicabanga. Wavumela inja yakhe ayithandayo, uMolly, ukuba alethwe ewadini lokufa ukuze akwazi ukuvalelisa kuye.
"Ngokusho kwabasebenzi basesibhedlela," kusho uMichelle, "inja bekumele ibone ukuthi kungani umnikazi wayo engabuyanga. Labo ababemazi uRyan bakhumbula ukuthi wayeyithanda kangakanani inja yakhe emangalisayo. "
Isimo sokuvalelisa komnikazi wokugcina esilwaneni sakhe sangena kwi-Intanethi futhi saxoxwa kakhulu, sahambisa abaningi enhliziyweni.
UMichelle uthi manje, ngemuva kokushona kukaRyan, wathatha uMolly wamyisa emndenini wakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wathi inhliziyo kaRyan yafakwa kwentsha eneminyaka engu-17.
