Ngabe unaso isilwane esithandekayo esinomsila obushelelezi futhi uze nesiteketiso esihlekisayo ngaye, wathenga ipuleti elihle ngisho nethreyi ?! Ngabe izingane zijabule, ngisho nobaba oqinile womndeni akakwazi ukumomotheka lapho ebona lesi siqhubu?
Kuhle, kepha kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi ukukhulisa ikati, njengengane, kuzodingeka kusebenze. Kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokubonakala kwesilwane ekhaya lakho udinga qeqesha ikati liye ebhokisini lodoti.
Ngokwesilinganiso, kuthatha izinsuku eziyisikhombisa ukuqeqesha ikati ukusebenzisa ibhokisi lodoti. Gcina ibhokisi lodoti lihlanzekile - amakati ahlanzekile futhi awathandi ukwenza ibhizinisi labo lekati ebhokisini lodoti ongcolile.
Thatha imali uthenge udoti wekati okhethekile. Kungani? Abanikazi abaningi bekati benza iphutha lokusebenzisa izingcezu zephepha noma iphephandaba elidala kusilahla wekati esikhundleni sikadoti.
Ungakwenzi lokho! Ngoba ikati, selihambe kanye noma kabili esiqeshini sephepha, ngezidladla zalo, ngokungazi, lisakaza uketshezi olungelona iphunga elizungeze indlu. Uzoba nephunga lekati eliqhubekayo endlini yakho futhi, okubi kunakho konke, ikati lingaqala ukuzikhulula ngqo kulezo zindawo lapho linuka khona hhayi iphunga elimnandi.
Uma kwenzeka kanjalo - ungalahli ithemba! Kusafana kakhulu ikatiziqeqeshe ukuhamba ngethreyi ngokugcwalisa. Ungasishayi isilwane sakho - uzothukuthela kuphela, kungcono ukuthulula okugcwalisa okuthe xaxa.
Amanye amakati, ngaphambi kokuya kuthileyi lapho kudingeka, angadlala nokuqukethwe yilokho, aze akufafaze. Ungathukutheli, futhi isilwane sakho ngokuqinisekile sizokubonga ngokuzayo ngokubekezela nangokungacunuli okukhonjiswe kuye.
Futhi ukwenza umngani wakho onoboya akhohlwe indlela yezindawo ezishisayo, baphathe ngesifutho esikhethekile ukwethusa amakati. Ungasebenzisa futhi indlela endala efakazelwe - gcoba indawo esolisayo ngogalikhi oqoshiwe, ikati akunakwenzeka ukuthi lifune ukuya lapho futhi lapho lidingeka.
Ungalishayi ikati uma egangile
Qiniseka ukuthi izingane azidonsi ikati ngomsila - lokhu ngeke kuholele kokuhle. Kwesinye isikhathi kuyenzeka ukuthi ukugcwaliswa kuhle futhi ithreyi ayimile ingcolile, kepha ikati lisaligijimela eceleni, okucasula kakhulu abanikazi balo. Into esemqoka ukuthola isizathu sokuziphatha okungalungile okunjalo.
Bheka isilwane sakho - mhlawumbe asiphilile bese ukuvakashela udokotela wezilwane ngeke kube yinto engadingekile, noma othile okhubekise umkhuhlane futhi ngaleyo ndlela, ajezise owonile, noma mhlawumbe ikati lihlukumezeke - kungaba yini - izivakashi ezinomsindo ngayizolo noma ukulungiswa endlini.
Noma mhlawumbe umemezele ezinhliziyweni zakho ukuthi ukhathele ukuhlanza ngemuva kwakhe yedwa, ngakho-ke akayi lapho ukuze angakuphazamisi. Shayela izingane usizo futhi usethe iwashi, izingane zizoba nesibopho ngokwengeziwe, ngoba ingxenye yokunakekelwa komlingani odlala ngomsila izowela emahlombe abo, futhi kuzoba lula ngawe ukubhekana nemisebenzi yasekhaya.
Kuyenzeka futhi ukuthi izangoma zethu zasekhaya zizizwe zihlukaniswa ngokushesha nelinye lamalungu omndeni ezinamathele kakhulu kuzo futhi ziqale ukukhathazeka ngalokhu. Isibonelo, uhambo lwezingane ehlobo oluya ekamu noma uhlela nje iholide lasehlobo, kanti i-minke yakho isivele yahlola izinhlelo zakho "ezikhohlisayo", ngokombono wayo, futhi ibhekene nokuhlukana okuzayo.
Mzungeze ngokunakekela, ukushaywa unhlangothi, ukuklwebheka ngemuva kwendlebe, amakati, njengomthetho, aphendule othandweni ngothando. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuphatha izindawo lapho ikati likwazile ukubabaza ngesifutho noma igalikhi!
Imvamisa kakhulu abesilisa bamaka insimu. Lesi simo kunzima ukulwa naso. Uma usebenzise zonke izindlela ukuxazulula le nkinga, futhi imiphumela ayikhuthazi, uma izinzwa zakho zisemkhawulweni futhi usuvele ucabanga ukuhambisa ikati kubazali bakhe e-dacha. Ungajahi, uzohlala enesikhathi lapho.
Ungahle uthande ukucabanga ukuguqula isilwane sakho ngemuva kokuthintana nodokotela wezilwane. Isixazululo senkinga sikhulu, kepha siyasebenza kakhulu!
Esikhundleni senkani nesinhlanhlatha, uzothola isilwane esivumayo, esimnene nesithandekayo ngaphandle komkhuba wokushayana emakhoneni noma ezicathulweni zezivakashi (nakho kuyenzeka). Kuliqiniso, uzodla kakhulu, futhi ngeke esaba yisigaxa, kodwa ube yibhola eliphaphatheka!
Uma ikati liphawulwa ezindabeni ezimanzi elingafuni ukuzifundisa kabusha, sincoma ukuthi linciphise inzalo, futhi zonke izinkinga zokhaphethi abamanzi naphansi zizokhohlakala njengephupho elibi.
Uzolala ngokuthula, wazi ukuthi noma ngabe ikati likamakhelwane linikeza isilwane sakho isidladla nenhliziyo ngaphandle kwemvume yakho, ngeke zibe khona izinkinga ngenzalo yalaba bantu abathandekayo! Kufanele kukhunjulwe njalo ukuthi uma sesivele sinekati, sinesibopho salo, ngoba lesi sidalwa esiphilayo siba umngani ozinikele nelungu lomndeni!
Futhi noma kwesinye isikhathi izilwane zethu zisinikeza inkinga, okuthi, uma zifunwa, zingaqedwa, kepha zisinika okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu - uthando nokuzinikela kwazo, ngoba azikhathali ukuthi sikala kangakanani nokuthi sisebenza kubani, zisithanda ngalokho esiyikho!
